Folayemi Adeyanju

Folayemi Omolara Adeyanju is a faith-based health coach dedicated to helping women break free from unhealthy habits and embrace God’s plan for their lives. As a public health graduate and passionate advocate for wellness, she inspires women to adopt a healthy lifestyle that radiates from the inside out. She leads a community called Healthy Women Thrive and also runs Lhara Oloyin Limited, a healthy food company specializing in raw, unadulterated honey sourced across Nigeria. 

10 Unhealthy Habits That Cause Toxin Buildup in Women

Every day, consciously or unconsciously, women expose their bodies to toxins. This could be from the food they eat, the air they breathe, the products they use or even their daily habits.  While our body is naturally designed to detoxify itself, certain unhealthy habits can overwhelm its ability to cleanse itself, leading to toxin buildup. Overtime, this accumulation can manifest in fatigue, gut issues, hormonal imbalances, skin issues, digestive problems, and even long-term health risks. For women, the impact of toxins is even more significant to our health due to hormonal fluctuations, metabolism, and lifestyle factors. In other words, our seemingly harmless habits may be silently contributing to toxin overload.  Here are 10 habits that may be slowly causing toxins to build up in your body 1. Poor Diet:Consuming ultra-processed foods high in additives and preservatives can introduce harmful chemicals into the body. This can be controlled by eating more raw foods that are man made and require minimal manipulation before you have to eat it. This retains its nutrients and ensures your diet is rich and balanced.  2. Excessive Sugar Intake:High sugar consumption can lead to inflammation and disrupt the body’s natural detoxification processes. Sugar is present in almost all packaged foods we can on the shelves. Regular consumption of a high sugar diet can lead to insulin spikes that trigger other lifestyle conditions, from high blood pressure, to diabetes, etc. Read labels before you purchase anything and stick to low sugar meals.  3. Overeating:Overloading the digestive system can hinder its ability to process and eliminate toxins effectively. This can be described as gluttony, whereby you have no conscious control of how you eat. In order not to introduce toxins to the body, we have to eat only when hungry and stop eating when you are satisfied, not when you are stuffed.  4. Lack of Hydration:Not drinking enough water can prevent the body from flushing out toxins through urine and sweat. Drinking water is satisfying. The U.S. National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine, suggest that women should drink about 2.7 liters (or 9 cups) of total water per day, including fluids from water, beverages, and food.However, this may vary based on the climate of your area, physical activity, pregnancy, breastfeeding, and health conditions. It’s best to listen to your body’s thirst cues and maintain hydration throughout the day. If you find the taste of water boring, try infusing some fruits with your water.  5. Excessive Alcohol Consumption:Alcohol can overwhelm the liver, the body’s primary detox organ, leading to toxin buildup. Your occasional glasses of wine, beer, whiskey, etc, floods your body with toxic liquids that it doesn’t know what to do with. Cut back on your alcohol consumption or stop totally to reduce the toxin buildup from alcohol and to allow your liver heal.  6. Smoking:Smoking among women has become rampant, whether for the fun of it, or due to peer pressure, either way, smoking has damaging effects on your organs and body. If you don’t smoke but find yourself amongst second-hand smoke a lot, start removing yourself from such areas. Inhalation of tobacco smoke whether directly or indirectly introduces numerous toxins and carcinogens into the body. 7. Sedentary Lifestyle:Lack of physical activity reduces circulation and lymphatic flow, hindering the body’s detox processes. To improve this, start adding more physical activity to your day. Walk more, follow exercise videos that’ll inspire you to workout and stay physically active all day long.  8. High Caffeine Intake:Overconsumption of caffeine can stress the liver and disrupt hormone balance. So, that regular morning, mid-day, and evening coffee might just be doing more harm than good. Replace your love for coffee with drinks like green tea, green juice, beet juice, etc.  9. Inadequate Sleep:While we sleep, the body naturally detoxifies itself. Poor sleep patterns interfere with the body’s natural detoxification and repair processes. Disrupting this process leads to toxin accumulation, inflammation, and an increased risk of chronic diseases like heart disease, obesity, and neurological disorders. However, we can break free of this by establishing a consistent sleep routine, limiting screen time before bed, creating a sleep-friendly environment, engaging in relaxing activities before bed, and getting natural sunlight before bed.  10. Stress:Chronic stress can lead to increased production of cortisol, which can impair detoxification pathways. Prioritize rest and relaxation by meditating, engaging in breathing exercises, regular massages, and getting enough sleep (between 7-9 hours every night).   

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The Power of Gratitude for your Health

When we think of gratitude, we think of the action of saying “thank you” to someone for something they’ve done for us that made our life better. There are several instances for expressing gratitude but that one example speaks volumes if you read it again to understand.  Gratitude is more than just a polite “thank you.” It’s a powerful, transformative practice that can profoundly impact your mental, emotional, and even physical health. While modern medicine addresses specific ailments, gratitude helps nurture the whole person— mind, body, and soul. When you say “thank you” to someone for doing something for you or giving you something, whether you expected it or not, the person feels good, and you feel good for making them feel good. In order words, gratitude has a repule effect. What goes around comes around.  Gratitude is the act of recognizing and appreciating the good in your life, no matter how small or simple. It shifts your focus from what you lack to what you have, fostering a positive outlook that can improve overall well-being. Have you ever considered expressing gratitude to yourself for your health? For the actions you take daily that keep you healthy and sane? Have you ever said outwardly to yourself; “(Your name), thank you for showing up for your health and well-being yesterday (or today- depending on when you are saying it). Thank you for drinking water first thing in the morning, for exercising, for the nutritious breakfast, the balanced lunch, the mindfulness exercise, the breathing exercise, etc. I felt so good afterwards and those activities made the day super easy, I was able to focus on my goals better and work towards my vision. Thank you for staying strong and committed to being healthy. You truly deserve it!” Try this easy activity while standing in front of a mirror.  You don’t have to use my exact words verbatim, you speak according to the reality of what you did for your health.  This is a new year and one of the ways to accomplish all you’ve set out to, is to diligently pursue all that will get you there, and that includes expressing gratitude to God, yourself, the things and people that matter to you, and everyone who deserves it.  Gratitude is a cherished gift worldwide and one that in this new year, I encourage you to give yourself as much as you give others. Saying “thank you” to yourself often enough will:  Build your self esteem  Improve your confidence  Encourage you repeat the process  Help you stay grounded in what truly matters  Elevate your emotions by activating your happy hormones Boost your immunity  Improve your sleep  Support your heart health Lower your blood pressure  Encourage other healthy behaviors  Practical Ways to Cultivate Gratitude Incorporating gratitude into your daily life doesn’t have to be complicated: Start a Gratitude Journal: Write down three things you’re thankful for each day. Practice Mindful Appreciation: Take a moment to acknowledge the beauty in your surroundings, like a sunrise or a warm cup of tea. Express Gratitude to Yourself and Others: Let someone know you appreciate them with a note, text, or verbal acknowledgment. Remember the gratitude acknowledgement shared earlier, practice saying that to yourself often.  Conclusion  By cultivating a thankful heart, you can lower stress, enhance physical health, and deepen your relationships. It’s not just about what happens to you but how you respond with a grateful attitude that transforms your life from the inside out. This year, commit to loving yourself more by telling yourself the simple words “thank you” daily and watch how your mind, body, and soul will transform in a couple of months. Don’t keep this to yourself, share it with your loved ones.

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5 Simple Tips for Staying Consistent with Healthy Habits During the Festive Season

In Nigeria, the festive season is synonymous with food, family, and fun. From jollof rice to fried chicken, chin chin, and bowls of pepper soup, the holiday period is a time of endless celebrations, and food is always at the center. While these gatherings create joyful memories, they can also pose a challenge for anyone trying to maintain healthy habits. The good news is that you don’t have to choose between enjoying the festivities and staying healthy. With a bit of intentionality and some realistic strategies tailored to Nigerian family gatherings, you can maintain a balance. Here are five practical tips to help you stay consistent with healthy habits during this festive season.   1. Plan Ahead for Family Gatherings:Nigerian family gatherings are known for their elaborate meals and long hours of celebration. Whether it’s a Christmas party or a New Year’s Day reunion, planning ahead is key to making healthier choices. I. Eat Before You Go: If you’re attending a party, eat something light and healthy beforehand, like a bowl of fruits or a small serving of salad. This way, you won’t arrive famished and overindulge in fried snacks and sugary drinks. II. Bring a Healthy Option: Offer to contribute a dish to the celebration. For instance, you could bring grilled fish, vegetable stir-fry, or fruit salad. Not only will this help you make healthier choices, but it also introduces your family to delicious, nutritious alternatives. III. Balance Your Plate: Nigerian gatherings often have a variety of options, from fried rice to moimoi and peppered meat. Focus on filling your plate with more vegetables, protein (like chicken, fish, or beans), and smaller portions of high-calorie dishes like fried rice or pounded yam.   2. Practice Portion Control:The sheer variety of food at Nigerian celebrations can tempt anyone to overeat. From party jollof rice to nkwobi and lots of chicken, it’s easy to pile your plate high. The key is portion control. I. Start Small: Begin with smaller portions of your favorite dishes. You can always go back for more if you’re still hungry. II. Use Smaller Plates: If possible, opt for a smaller plate. This simple trick can help you avoid overloading your plate. III. Avoid Eating Straight from the Cooler or Tray: At Nigerian gatherings, food is often served in large coolers or trays. Dish out your portion and move away from the serving area to avoid mindless snacking.   3. Stay Active During the Festivities:The festive season is often filled with back-to-back events, and it’s easy to put exercise on hold. However, staying active is crucial for managing the extra calories and maintaining your energy levels. I. Incorporate Family Activities: Suggest activities that get everyone moving. For instance, you can organize a dance session after meals (Nigerians love to groove!), take a family walk around the neighborhood, or play outdoor games like football or catch. II. Morning Workouts: Start your day with a quick 20-30 minute workout. This could be skipping, jogging, or even a YouTube home workout session. Doing this in the morning ensures you stay active no matter how busy the day gets. III. Run Errands Actively: During the festive season, there’s often a lot of running around—from shopping in Balogun Market to picking up family members at the park. Use these errands as an opportunity to stay active by walking more and choosing stairs over elevators.   4. Be Mindful of Drinks and Snacks: In Nigerian gatherings, sugary drinks like soft drinks, chapman, and fruit juices flow freely. Add fried snacks like puff-puff, buns, and samosas to the mix, and you’ve consumed a significant number of calories without even realizing it. I. Stay Hydrated with Water: Always keep a bottle of water with you. Drink water before meals to reduce hunger and during meals to slow down your pace. II. Limit Sugary Drinks: Instead of drinking several bottles of soda, opt for zobo, kunu, or better yet, water. If you want a fizzy drink, dilute it with water or ice to reduce the sugar content. III. Snack Wisely: If you must snack, go for healthier options like roasted groundnuts, boiled corn, or fresh fruits. Carry these with you to gatherings where healthier snacks might not be available.   5. Set Realistic Expectations and Show Yourself Grace:The holidays are meant to be enjoyed, and part of the joy comes from indulging in your favorite festive treats. Setting realistic expectations for yourself will help you maintain balance without feeling deprived. I. Choose Your Treats Wisely: You don’t have to eat everything at every gathering. Choose your absolute favorites—like that party jollof rice with the smoky flavor—and skip what doesn’t excite you. II. Practice the 80/20 Rule: Aim to make healthy choices 80% of the time and enjoy indulgent treats the other 20%. This allows you to participate in celebrations without completely derailing your health goals. III. Don’t Feel Guilty: If you overeat at one meal, don’t let it ruin your day or week. Simply get back on track with your next meal or activity. Remember, it’s about progress, not perfection.   ConclusionThe festive season in Nigeria is a time to connect with loved ones, enjoy cultural traditions, and reflect on the year. By planning ahead, practicing portion control, staying active, and being mindful of your choices, you can navigate the holiday season without compromising your health goals. Remember, thriving in your health during the holidays isn’t about deprivation—it’s about balance. With these simple tips, you can enjoy the best of the season while staying consistent with your healthy habits. Cheers to a vibrant, illness-free festive season and a healthier you in the new year!

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Prioritizing Your Health: The Foundation for a Thriving Life

We live in a world where women juggle multiple responsibilities — career, family, community, and personal growth. Yet, our health often takes a back seat. While men face similar struggles, this article focuses on women. It’s easy to push aside rest, nutrition, and exercise in favor of the next urgent task. But what if prioritizing your health isn’t just about you? What if taking care of your body and mind is the foundation for every other aspect of your life? Prioritizing your health is not about perfection; it’s about intentionality. It’s about realizing that the energy you need to show up for your family, fulfill your calling, or succeed in your career starts with how you care for yourself. When you neglect your health, you’re not just tired—you’re running on reserves that cannot sustain your long-term vision. Here’s why you need to prioritize your health: Your Health Fuels Your Purpose Every woman has dreams, goals, and a purpose to fulfill. I know I do. What about you? Whether you’re building a business, raising children, or leading a community, you need physical, mental, and emotional strength to get there. Your health is the fuel that drives your purpose. Imagine trying to embark on a long journey with a car that has no gas. That’s what happens when you ignore your health, it compromises your ability to live out the vision you hold for yourself and those around you. You’ve likely heard this before: eat well, exercise, and reduce your stress. Eating nutritious food, staying active, and resting intentionally give you the energy to live with vitality. Health isn’t about losing weight (which is the most sought-after reason for a healthier life) or fitting into an ideal; it’s about feeling your best so you can be your best. You Set the Standard for Others As women, we are natural leaders in our homes and communities. Our actions set the tone for our children, spouse, friends, and coworkers. When you prioritize your health, you model self-respect and self-discipline. You teach your children the importance of nourishing their bodies, resting intentionally, and making choices that reflect care and love. Think about it this way: your family sees how you treat yourself. Do they see a woman who loves and cares for herself, or someone who is constantly running on empty? Prioritizing your health builds a culture of well-being in your home, inspiring those around you to do the same. When I start something new, my kids and husband are the first to notice. When they see me doing it, it becomes easier for them to follow. Because, if mummy can, they believe they can too. So, ask yourself: Is my current lifestyle worthy of emulation? Or can it be better? Health Is Your Foundation for Resilience Life is full of challenges – unexpected stress, loss, or overwhelming responsibilities. When you invest in your health, you build resilience to handle life’s pressures. A well-rested body handles stress better. A nourished mind makes clearer decisions. A woman who prioritizes her emotional and physical well-being is less likely to crumble under pressure. Taking just 15 minutes a day for physical activity, prayer, meditation, or intentional breathing can change the way you approach challenges. Health doesn’t have to mean massive lifestyle changes overnight. It’s about small, consistent actions that create strength over time. It’s not stressful or time-consuming. Simply commit to taking intentional steps like progressively incorporating two healthy habits daily until they become a natural part of your lifestyle. Your Health Is an Act of Self-Respect You are worthy of care. I love this statement so much. I remind myself daily: “I am worthy of care.” This is not about binge-eating ultra-processed food while saying, “I can’t come and kill myself.” When you prioritize your health, you affirm your worth. You remind yourself that you are valuable not just for what you do for others, but for who you are. Women often give so much to others that they forget to save a little care for themselves. But pouring from an empty cup is not sustainable. By eating well, moving your body, and resting, you’re choosing to honor yourself. You’re saying, “I matter.” Conclusion Prioritizing your health isn’t about selfishness—it’s about stewardship. It’s about making choices that allow you to thrive physically, mentally, and emotionally so you can show up fully for the people and responsibilities you care about. Start small: drink more water, take a short walk, and rest when you need to. Your health is not a luxury—it’s a necessity for living a full, thriving life. Today, make a commitment to yourself:“My health matters because I matter.”

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